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Grant’s most important compatibility topics are cleanliness, sleep schedules, work schedules, overnight guests and dating partners, shared expenses, and what happens if one person needs to leave early. The awkward conversation is much easier before signing than after resentment develops. Roommates should also understand that their private agreement about splitting rent does not necessarily limit liability under the actual lease. Ask the property about replacement-roommate and internal-transfer options, and put personal expectations in writing if that helps clarify the arrangement.
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